Over the years, I have participated in many online communities. The first step in order to participate in such a community usually involves filling out a profile, often including a field labelled “Location”. In this field, I would usually enter “online”. It was only partially a joke. I can’t really explain it, but my gut feeling is that my participation in any community is not so much associated with a place as it is a matter of language (and linguistic expression, linguistic community, etc.).
Recently, I have focused my attention on the apparent contrast between milieus and mainstream media (see “Mainstream Milieus” [ https://socio.business.blog/2025/02/01/mainstream-milieus ] ). While the notion of milieu is normally crucially intertwined with location, it is not clear whether this association is a matter of spatial proximity or whether it might just as well be a matter of topical proximity (which is sometimes also referred to by the more academic term “topos”). One very clear example of such topical proximity is the very close association between concepts in the languages used in marketplaces all across the globe — which use terms such as “buy” and “sell” in very distinct specificity and also to very high degrees. Participants in such marketplace communities are highly integrated not so much by being spatially near one another as they are by speaking the same language (or very similar languages).
This week I was contacted by a longtime friend from another community I participated in decades ago. I can’t quite put my finger on how we had an immediate understanding upon meeting, yet if I were forced to make a guess it might have to do with our very “native” approaches to information and communication technologies. Over the years we have often exchanged observations we are inspired by or in a spirit of wonderful amazement. In any case, what my friend informed me of this time was equally as wonderful and amazing as ever, and now I would like to share with you why I bring it up here, in this context.
He said he had recently learned of a young woman named Yeonmi Park and in particular of what she had been saying about language (which might be of particular interest to me). Indeed: I do find much of what Yeonmi Park has said amazingly fascinating. What is more, Yeonmi’s message is not only about language, it is also about milieu, it is also about mainstream, about culture, about economics, about humanity about humans, human existence and about existing, existentialism and more. Yeonmi speaks to crowds and entrances her audiences to think about their own lives, calling upon them to orient their attention towards their own complicity not only in their own role in their own lives, but also towards their own role in all of life everywhere.

She often contrasts the individual with the collective. She maintains that she grew up learning a regulated language, from which a manipulative dictator had censored ideas deemed to be criminal. Although languages are generally assumed to evolve according to something like “natural” laws of linguistics, such evolutionary developments can perhaps be interfered with (and maybe even interrupted) for short periods of time by some outside force — such as the enforcement of weird, cruel and unusual punishment in the context of an extreme dictatorship.
However, since such extreme conditions are so rare, my hunch is that such speculation is hardly based on adequate amounts of reliable or valid observational data. Nonetheless, I have long held natural languages to be far more reliable than idiosyncratic and strongly regulated expressions (usually “protected” and enforced by rule of law — for more about this, see “Rational Language” [ https://phlat.design.blog/2024/01/14/rational-media ] ).
In this vein, Yeonmi Park can be viewed as behaving rationally, preferring to participate in linguistic communities based on natural language rather than succumbing to the enforcement of dictatorial government regulations. In this light her behavior is seen by many as ideal and naturally beautiful, much in the same way as many natural phenomena which are interpreted as healthy and well adapted are normally perceived as appealing to most living things.



